How to Relax When You Don’t Know How

How to Relax When You Don’t Know How

How to Relax When You Don’t Know How Don’t know how to relax? You’re not alone. Most of us grew up hearing things like “Idle hands are the devil’s workshop” and “Work now, play later” and “If you want to succeed,...
Want to Heal Trauma? Cultivate Consistency

Want to Heal Trauma? Cultivate Consistency

Take Charge of Your Healing We can’t change the things that have happened to us, but we can grow beyond them and heal. The top hack to heal trauma is to cultivate consistency. When something traumatic happens, it’s like the rug is pulled out from under us....
Why Some People Find Healing a Challenge

Why Some People Find Healing a Challenge

Are You Blocking Your Success? It’s funny because I’ve been in the trauma treatment business over twenty years. As far back as when I was an intern, I was dumped on and given the “hard-to-help,” so called “treatment resistant”...
How to Show Up and Stop Hiding Your True Self

How to Show Up and Stop Hiding Your True Self

What Does Hiding Look Like People hide to stay safe. It’s typically shame driven and comes from the deep fear that if others see who we really are, they won’t like us and will abandon us. The truth is, it hurts us because not only do others not get to know...