Why Fixing People is a Waste of Time
We're all taught to be kind and help others. It makes us feel good. It is a way to contribute to society, so why is fixing people a bad thing?
The answer lies in the line between helping and fixing. We help people we see as equals who want assistance with a problem. We fix people whom we see as beneath us and are defective in some way.
Can you see the ocean of difference between the two?
Why This Fails
Here's what to do instead
Fixing People is a Lose/Lose Proposition
Make the shift
Most people want to fix things because they care.
Keep your loving caring nature, and learn to share it in a way that creates healthy, meaningful, authentic relationships for both sides. After all, isn't that your driving motivation anyway?