• Stop Trying to Change People Who Don’t Want to Change

    Stop Trying to Change People Who Don’t Want to Change

    How Do You Deal With People Who Don’t Want to Change? You may not be able to change other people, but you do have power to make this situation better! As With All Things, The Solution Lies With Yourself It is frustrating to see someone else struggle, do the wrong things, or just be incorrect,

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  • What’s the Difference Between Reciprocal and Transactional Relationships?

    What’s the Difference Between Reciprocal and Transactional Relationships?

    Let Go of Unsatisfying Relationships What’s the difference between a transactional relationship and a reciprocal one? In both, the participants give something to each other. The two major differences are relationship and intent.  In a transactional relationship, the relationship is focused on, and largely limited to, the transaction. There is no relationship beyond the exchange

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  • How to Stop Listening to Gossip

    How to Stop Listening to Gossip

    Stop Listening to Gossip! Gossiping is one of the most destructive forms of speech. It ruins trust and relationships. It’s a waste of time. And it often leaves you in a negative and critical mood. But how do you stop listening to gossip without appearing rude or hurting the speaker’s feelings? It Takes Two to

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  • Why We Don’t Talk About Our Dreams

    Why We Don’t Talk About Our Dreams

    Dreams are a treasure trove of information! They are a free risk management tool that can make your life safer, more fun, and easier. Yet we don’t talk about our dreams – at least not outside the therapist’s office. Why? It Feels Self Indulgent Holding someone hostage while you divulge your nocturnal vision can feel

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