Why External Validation Is Never Enough

Why External Validation Is Never Enough

Remember this? Do You Like Me? Yes or No Remember when we were little kids and someone would slip you a note in school that read, “Do you like me?” and there would be a box to check yes or no? It was innocent and cute to get that kind of approval back...
Are You Stuffing Your Anger?

Are You Stuffing Your Anger?

Nine Signs That You’re Suppressing Your Anger “Anybody can become angry — that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody’s...
What Happened When I Took A Social Media Break

What Happened When I Took A Social Media Break

On 12/31/21 I pulled the plug on all my social media except MeWe. Here’s what happened. What Happened When I Took a Social Media Break Conventional wisdom says that if you have a business, you have to do social media. You have to be in front of people, go to...
Letting Go of The Future

Letting Go of The Future

A Japanese warrior was captured by his enemies and thrown into prison. That night he was unable to sleep because he feared that the next day he would be interrogated, tortured, and executed. Then the words of his Zen master came to him, “Tomorrow is not real. It...
How to Kick the Indecisiveness Habit Fast

How to Kick the Indecisiveness Habit Fast

Let’s look at how to let that go now! Indecisiveness Can Be Crippling I once worked with a sweet natured woman who had a lot of issues with self-esteem. As she became more confident, she realized that her friends didn’t see her. They never asked her what...