Growing Up Means Realizing Your Parents Are Flawed When working with people to help them let go of childhood issues, it is common to get new insight that changes the way we see our parents. We have to incorporate this new information in order to move forward. When...
we all look forward to putting our feet up In The West, We All Look Forward to Retirement When We Can Coast If an all-knowing psychic said that a year from now, life would look exactly like it does now, most of us would be horrified. The Cost of Comfort Most of us...
Is Seeing Things Through Always the Right Thing to Do? If you had parents who tried to instill you with positive values, you probably heard things like “You’ve got to honor your commitments” and “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try...
Oh, no! I’m a lazy thinker! Nobody thinks that they are intellectually lazy, but you won’t know until you examine the evidence. Here are the signs. “Research” is sound bites Details, schemetails. A second hand quote or line or two will do!...
Is Your Image Killing You? I wouldn’t know until later that the day I met “Greg” was the darkest of his life. It’s a Friday, and he’s my last appointment of the day. He is wearing tailored pants, handcrafted leather shoes, light cologne,...
Is Fall the Season for Isolation? It’s fall. The sun is rising later and setting earlier. Fifty degrees in February feels positively balmy, but in October it sends me inside for a blanket and a fire. So quite naturally people are spending more time indoors and...
