by Laura | Nov 2, 2022 | healing, relationships
It’s Time to Upgrade Your Definition of Sexy When we’re twenty-one, the only criterion that most of us have for defining whether someone is attractive or not is looks. It’s an “If the exterior looks good, I want it” type of attitude....
by Laura | Oct 25, 2022 | healing
“I Just Want to Be Nice” Many people pleasers think that they do what they do because they want to be nice. They think they are helping. People please is a trauma response. It’s called fawning. We do it to stay safe, avoid criticism, fit in, and feel...
by Laura | Oct 24, 2022 | healing
Why Objectifying People is a Problem Objectification in western society is so common that we don’t even respond to it. It’s an accepted norm. We talk about celebrities as if they aren’t real people with real feelings. We post photos of strangers in...
by Laura | Oct 23, 2022 | healing
What’s Stonewalling? Are You Doing It? Stonewalling is an unhealthy response to conflict. Lots of people who don’t know how to resolve conflict in a healthy way, advocate for themselves, or manage their emotions do it to stay safe from overwhelming...
by Laura | Oct 18, 2022 | healing
Are You “too available?” What Message Are You Sending By Being Too Available? Believe it or not, being too available can work against you. Here’s what messages you could be sending. I have no life People with interesting lives are far more attractive...
