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How To Let Go of a Relationship You Still Want
When The Love Lives Longer Than the Relationship It happens. The love outlasts the relationship sometimes. Someone transfers with their job. Someone doesn’t feel the same as the other. Or maybe college ends and one person is returning home. Sometimes there are deal breakers that make a long term match untenable. Maybe there is a
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Are You Seeing Your Parents Realistically?
Growing Up Means Realizing Your Parents Are Flawed When working with people to help them let go of childhood issues, it is common to get new insight that changes the way we see our parents. We have to incorporate this new information in order to move forward. When that proves challenging, it can be a
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What You Don’t Know About Loneliness, But Should
The Epidemic of Loneliness Many of societies’ problems can be traced back to loneliness addiction – substance abuse, eatingdepressionprostitutionthe hook up culturetransactional relationships All of these things, and many more, happen because we all just want to be seen and experience the intimacy of belonging. When we can’t get what we want, we either find
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The Astonishing Impact of Staying in Your Comfort Zone
we all look forward to putting our feet up In The West, We All Look Forward to Retirement When We Can Coast If an all-knowing psychic said that a year from now, life would look exactly like it does now, most of us would be horrified. The Cost of Comfort Most of us say we
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The Fascinating Difference Between Letting Go and Quitting
Is Seeing Things Through Always the Right Thing to Do? If you had parents who tried to instill you with positive values, you probably heard things like “You’ve got to honor your commitments” and “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” It’s no surprise that people with this type of mindset are far
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Want to Be Amazing? Upgrade Your Circle!
We’re all mirrors for each other What Are Your Peeps Doing? Motivational speaker, Jim Rohn said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” So, what are your peeps doing? Escaping from life? Grinding through life? Sleeping? Or living in an inspired, involved, connected way? What they are doing,
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How Being Intellectually Lazy Makes You a Poor Leader
Oh, no! I’m a lazy thinker! Nobody thinks that they are intellectually lazy, but you won’t know until you examine the evidence. Here are the signs. “Research” is sound bites Details, schemetails. A second hand quote or line or two will do! Don’t consider you could be wrong You’re overconfident and a bit too sure.
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“It Wasn’t Me!” How Defensiveness is Not Attractive
It’s Time to Upgrade Your Definition of Sexy When we’re twenty-one, the only criterion that most of us have for defining whether someone is attractive or not is looks. It’s an “If the exterior looks good, I want it” type of attitude. However, once you get burned by that a time or two, it’s time
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Just Say No to the Holiday Consumerism Frenzy
It’s Kick off to crazy town! Get Ready to Pace Yourself and Plan It’s November 1st and with the flip of a calendar, the energy has shifted into high gear consumerism. What’s going on? I remember when I was a kid and the big event was the day Santa Claus showed up at the mall.
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Four Amazing Things That Happen When You Take Off Your Mask
Why Do We Wear Masks on Halloween? Do you know the story behind why we wear masks at Halloween? In Celtic lore, Halloween is the time when the veil between the living and dead is thin, so spirits can come and visit. When the door is open, all spirits can come through, not just the
