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The Fascinating Difference Between Letting Go and Quitting
Is Seeing Things Through Always the Right Thing to Do? If you had parents who tried to instill you with positive values, you probably heard things like “You’ve got to honor your commitments” and “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” It’s no surprise that people with this type of mindset are far
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Want to Be Amazing? Upgrade Your Circle!
We’re all mirrors for each other What Are Your Peeps Doing? Motivational speaker, Jim Rohn said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” So, what are your peeps doing? Escaping from life? Grinding through life? Sleeping? Or living in an inspired, involved, connected way? What they are doing,
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How Being Intellectually Lazy Makes You a Poor Leader
Oh, no! I’m a lazy thinker! Nobody thinks that they are intellectually lazy, but you won’t know until you examine the evidence. Here are the signs. “Research” is sound bites Details, schemetails. A second hand quote or line or two will do! Don’t consider you could be wrong You’re overconfident and a bit too sure.
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“It Wasn’t Me!” How Defensiveness is Not Attractive
It’s Time to Upgrade Your Definition of Sexy When we’re twenty-one, the only criterion that most of us have for defining whether someone is attractive or not is looks. It’s an “If the exterior looks good, I want it” type of attitude. However, once you get burned by that a time or two, it’s time
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Four Amazing Things That Happen When You Take Off Your Mask
Why Do We Wear Masks on Halloween? Do you know the story behind why we wear masks at Halloween? In Celtic lore, Halloween is the time when the veil between the living and dead is thin, so spirits can come and visit. When the door is open, all spirits can come through, not just the
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How to Tell if You Have a Savior Complex
Helping others is a good thing. Volunteering, taking a stand against oppression of all sorts, and being a good citizen benefits everyone. So where is the line between simply being a good person and having a savior complex? What Is a Savior Complex? A savior complex is a compulsion to seek out people who you
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Letting Go of the Highlight Reel Life
Is Your Image Killing You? I wouldn’t know until later that the day I met “Greg” was the darkest of his life. It’s a Friday, and he’s my last appointment of the day. He is wearing tailored pants, handcrafted leather shoes, light cologne, and looks freshly shaven. His face doesn’t show any of the despair
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Where Is the Line Between Isolating And Me Time?
Is Fall the Season for Isolation? It’s fall. The sun is rising later and setting earlier. Fifty degrees in February feels positively balmy, but in October it sends me inside for a blanket and a fire. So quite naturally people are spending more time indoors and less time socializing. Alone time can be healthy and
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How Too Much Stuff Messes Up Your Vibe
Are you awash in clutter? It’s All About Your Emotions! Psst! Let me tell you a secret. That clutter in on your desk, inside your closet, and in your car? It represents your inner world, your emotions. Yes, it’s a way to distract yourself from what you don’t want to feel. It’s a way of
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How to Know When To Let It Burn Down
It’s Scorpio Season! It’s Time to Burn It Down! If you ever want to see what time it is, look to Nature. Fall is the season of death and destruction The new moon in Scorpio came in with a bang! She’s highlighting everything whose time has come and she’s not being subtle. Scorpio keywords are