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Why You Should Forget About Growth
Forget About Growth? What? Forget about growth? What? That’s sacrilege! If you grew up with any role model in your life who was the least bit motivated, you learned how to focus on growth. Every coach talks about it. There are a million motivational quotes about growth. So what’s wrong with growth? Growth Is Only…
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Do You Have the Guts To Do An End-of-the-Year Self-Evaluation?
End-of-the-Year Self-Evaluation? If your mother were rating your performance as a human being, how would you do? Would your scores change if it were done by your child? How about your romantic partner? Best friend? What criteria would they find important? How about you? How would you do in an end-of-the-year self-evaluation? Would you be…
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Three Easy Tips for Building Massive Momentum To Reach Your Dreams
Inspiration is as fragile as a puff of wind. The spark can go out because of doubt, distraction, or paralysis by analysis. Whether you want to build a space colony or build a better version of yourself, here are three easy tips to build massive momentum. Just Get Started There are all sorts of reasons…
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What You Don’t Know About Loneliness, But Should
The Epidemic of Loneliness Many of societies’ problems can be traced back to loneliness addiction – substance abuse, eatingdepressionprostitutionthe hook up culturetransactional relationships All of these things, and many more, happen because we all just want to be seen and experience the intimacy of belonging. When we can’t get what we want, we either find…
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The Astonishing Impact of Staying in Your Comfort Zone
we all look forward to putting our feet up In The West, We All Look Forward to Retirement When We Can Coast If an all-knowing psychic said that a year from now, life would look exactly like it does now, most of us would be horrified. The Cost of Comfort Most of us say we…
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How to Let Go of Sentimental Things
Free yourself Your Memories Are Inside, Not In Your Stuff It’s hard to live your life without collecting things. Who doesn’t have trophies from competitive activities, mementos of trips we’ve taken, toys we used to play with, and clothes from the people we used to be? The problem is that after a while, those things…
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How to Kick the Indecisiveness Habit Fast
Let’s look at how to let that go now! Indecisiveness Can Be Crippling I once worked with a sweet natured woman who had a lot of issues with self-esteem. As she became more confident, she realized that her friends didn’t see her. They never asked her what she wanted. They assumed she would go along…
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How to Let Go of “I’m Okay if You’re Okay”
Let that go! It’s Exhausting to Get Your Inner Calm From Other People Imagine that you are on a new mom with a baby. Whenever the baby cries, you get anxious. You do everything you can to calm the baby, and can’t relax until the baby is fine. Sometimes you know exactly what the baby…
