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How to Be a Safe Person For Others To Be Around
How To Be a Safe Person The number one emotional need for all human beings is safety. Some of us think of it constantly and do things to create it. Others of us only think about it when safety is threatened. So if you want to have great relationships, it’s great to know how to
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When Your Relationship Doesn’t Nurture You
Is It Time to Go? Everyone wants a partner who is attentive, gets them, inspires them to be the best version of themselves, and inspires them to grow. We want to see the vision of ourselves that is reflected back to us in their eyes as someone who is lovely. But what do you do
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How to Let Go of Negative Emotions Before You Explode
Pst! You won’t explode Feeling Your Feels I know it feels like feelings will overwhelm you, but trust me. They won’t. The nature of energy is to flow Everything obeys the laws of nature. Emotions are just energy. Unless obstructed, energy flows. If you open the gates, what’s inside will come out until there is
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Are You Creeping People Out? (And How to Stop)
Nobody Wants to Be Creepy Nobody wants to be creepy, but what do you do when you overhear someone’s comment about a creep, and it turns out they are talking about you! How do you know if you are creeping people out? How do you stop? What Makes a Person Creepy There isn’t a definitive
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How To Let Go of a Relationship You Still Want
When The Love Lives Longer Than the Relationship It happens. The love outlasts the relationship sometimes. Someone transfers with their job. Someone doesn’t feel the same as the other. Or maybe college ends and one person is returning home. Sometimes there are deal breakers that make a long term match untenable. Maybe there is a
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What Does Being Too Available Say About You
Are You “too available?” What Message Are You Sending By Being Too Available? Believe it or not, being too available can work against you. Here’s what messages you could be sending. I have no life People with interesting lives are far more attractive than those with nothing going on. If you are always available, you
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Why You Need to Stop Sending Dick Pics
Does This Really Need to Be Said? I guess it does because today I got a dick pic. It’s Sexual Harassment Yep. Receiving unwanted nudity is sexual harassment. It’s illegal. It’s A Boundary Violation Sending something to someone who didn’t ask for it is a clear boundary violation. It’s Potentially Traumatizing If you send a
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Stop Taking Responsibility for Other People’s Feelings
Do your make choices based upon how other people might feel? Tiptoeing around other people’s potential feelings is like wearing a straight-jacket while walking through a mine field.To successfully navigate this mine field, you have to correctly guess what the other person will feel. Since it’s based on a future that you can’t predict, that’s